Off of that sad note, I then asked her what makes her the happiest. I was given a simple one-word answer, "love". When asked to elaborate, she responded: "when people are kind to each other, take a moment to say hello, offer a smile, establishing peace in conflict". And at a smaller, yet equally important scale, "making dinner for my wife, and having her really appreciate it, coming home when she randomly brings me a dozen roses, my family. Really, most things make me happy". Following that light-hearted answer, a loaded question. "Do you believe in God?". Yes, she does. She believes there is a higher being, but she doesn't subscribe to organized religion, she believes that could be dangerous. "But I do believe that something is out there, not pulling the strings, but all of this had to come from somewhere. I pray, I just don't know what I'm praying to".
She also mentioned what she likes the most about herself: her capacity to love, and her physical strength. On the contrary, she was also asked what bothers her the most about herself. To which she responded, "my fixation on my body" she went on to mention that she thinks that is a big problem in women of all ages today, "I wish I didn't care". She giggled when I asked what her earliest childhood memory was, and replied that it was her mom brushing her hair and her hating every minute of it. After learning more about Ms. Brennan and diving deeper into her thoughts, feelings, and experiences, I've grown a deeper appreciation for her and all of my teachers, for they have struggles and lives and families just like us. I don't think we realize that all of the time.
I love Ms. Brennan! And this is so good!
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DeleteOh I miss her so much! Your blog made me miss her and her amazing stories even more!!
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DeleteGreat interview!
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